3 Signs That Your Sex Life May Need Improving

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you currently happy, in terms of sex? Of course, it is important to make sure that you and your partner get along, have a good time together outside of the bedroom, and do not argue, but intimacy should not be ignored.

To help you determine if your sex life needs improving, please continue reading on, as a few signs that it may are highlighted below.

You don’t have sex. Not being intimate with your partner is a good sign that your sex life could use a makeover. Before proceeding any farther, it is important to determine why you and your partner are not being intimate. Do you not feel the need to be? Is your work or family getting in the way? Determining the route of your problem is the best way to fix it.

In keeping with not being sexually active, the same rules do not apply to you if you are not in a relationship. If you are not in a relationship, but if you want to experience intimacy, there are a number of steps that you will want to take. First, you will want to find someone who is compatible with you. To do so, use an online dating service, a speed dating service, or ask someone that you know to set you up on a date.

If you do have sex, how often do you have it? Not being intimate with your partner enough is another sign that your sex life may need improving. When determining what is the appropriate amount of times to be intimate, you will find that it depends. A number of factors, like your children and your work schedule, should be taken into consideration. With that said, learn how to make time for intimacy, as it is an important component of having a healthy and happy relationship.

Another common sign that your intimacy may need improving is if the sex that you do have is dull, boring, and no longer exciting. Once it becomes a chore to you or it seems like a responsibility that you must perform, action should be taken. To have a happy and healthy relationship, intimacy is important. With that being said, not just any intimacy will do. You should get excited about going to the bedroom with your partner and you should end the event satisfied.

If you and your partner are growing distant, it could be a sign that your sex life needs to improve. Why? As previously stated, intimacy is an important component of having a healthy relationship. Although a relationship should not revolve around sex, it should be an important part of it. If you and your partner are growing distant, consider using the bedroom to make improvements. When you do so, you may end up seeing the rest of your relationship properly fall into place.

If any of the above mentioned signs or situations apply to you and your love life, you may need to make a few changes. The good news is that it is easy to go about doing so. If you can’t seem to find the time to be intimate with your partner, make time, even if you must stay up later or get up earlier. If your sexual encounters are dull and boring, consider experimenting. A new position or the use of sex toys may be just what your relationship needs.

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What’s In Your Sex Toy Box!

There is a vast range of sex toys today. Its available for both the sexes i.e. male & female with significant multiplicity in its type.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Sex toys can help you get an erection or, if you are a female, arouse your genitals or just help in elevate your pleasure during the act.   They can also help you enjoy sex with different variations thus never letting you get bored of it. The best thing about them is they can help people having difficulty enjoying sex.

Its not only about the variety they provide to the act its about the zing they add to your relationships which you should look at.

The usual expectation is that a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the
genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to
obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Vibrating Sex Toys

The most common of the lot is the vibrating sex toys which provide arousal of the genitals through vibration. They can either be used to arouse the clitoris or the male genitalia.

Most of them are in the shape of a fatter pencil and are battery operated. But some of them come with an adaptor attached to them with a wire. They have a small motor inside them which when rotates provides the vibration. It has no rocket science involved with it but talking about its use, it comes very handy.
some of them have a controller which controls the power of the vibration. The strength of vibration depends on your personal taste and mood. There is no optimum strength which you should switch to. At various stage of your sexual experience, you may feel like changing the strength. It also depends on which piece of your body part you are arousing.

The recent vibrators are more interesting to look at. They provide a range of control for you starting from the speed/strength control of the vibration to surges & power pulses. The Effectiveness of these vibrators is without doubt

Butterfly stimulator’s & vibrating penis rings are some of the other types of vibrators available in the market.

Other Powered Sex Toys

The ways to provide stimulation can be many. There are some kinds which change shapes or moves back and forth by use of an electric motor. Mostly it’s the air pumps that motorize the back & forth movements. The various types of movements may be interesting to look at. Some of them are mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a ‘blow job’.

Have you heard of the expensive sex toys such as the thrusting & vibrating dildos? They do exist but on larger an much expensive scale.

Combination Sex Toys

Whatever we have discussed above is also available in one sex toy in a combination.

The commonest of them all is the rabbit style which uses movement & thrusting motion to arouse the clitoris or the vagina.

Adding textures to the surface of a sex toy for that extra pleasure is not uncommon at all. Some of them have spikes while others have ridges on the surface to elevate pleasure

Sensation Change Sex Toys

There again exists a completely different kind of sex toys which provide a different sensual experience while having sex rather than stimulation.

There are a range of sleeves which you can put on the penis for different feelings during intercourse.

Some of them are ring kind of thing that squeeze the bottom of the penis or constrict the scrotum to provide erection and increase sensations.
You can also extend your penis or make them thick using some kind of sex toys which may assist you in giving your female partner extra sensation during sex.

The assortment of lubricants available in the market aiding sex is worth mentioning. Also there are PVC & Polyurethane bed sheets that are oil proof & water proof for greasy or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

Are the fingers, penis mouth, tongue, clitoris, vagina etc. not sufficient to have a pleasurable sex? If yes, then why should one use sex toys?

Good question, but sex toys provide help you drive your imagination wild and most importantly give you variety in your sex life and that extra stimulation which is not possible in normal sex. And, we have still not talked about the therapeutic use like assistance in erection for people having difficulty in enjoying sex.

Where To Start?

For ice breakers you can try the simple vibrators and go on further with combination sex toys. If you enjoy the experience then move on to the more sophisticated ones.With time you will know what suits you more than others. Oh yes! Don’t forget… Sex is sex when you enjoy it, so go on satisfy yourself with that forbidden pleasure.

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Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories

Are you looking for an easy way to spice up your sex life with your spouse?  If you are, you should know that experimenting in the bedroom has been successful for many couples, just like you.
As nice as it is to know that experimenting in the bedroom may help to revive the romance in your relationship and improve your satisfaction in the bedroom, you may be curious about the buying process.  This is because one of the first ways that married couples experiment in the bedroom is with the use of sex toys and other similar accessories.
If this is the first time that you are looking to purchase sex toys and other similar accessories, you may be a little bit nervous about doing so.  In fact, you may be downright fearful of the whole process.  You are, please continue reading on, as some helpful buying tips are covered below.
First, it is important to know that sex toys and other similar accessories come in a number of different formats. You can purchase pleasure enhancing toys, role playing toys, massage oils and so forth.  This is important to know as it may eliminate some of the fear associated with going into a sex toy store and buying something that will bring attention to yourself, like a huge blowup doll.
Speaking of bringing attention to yourself, it is important to know that the use of sex toys in intimacy is increasing in popularity.  Many individuals are finding them to be a great new way to bring passion and excitement into the bedroom.  Although you might not know it, there is a good chance that your friends and even some of your relatives use these popular toys and accessories.  Knowing that you are not alone may help to make the buying process a lot easier.
If you live near a large city or town, you should have multiple sex toy and accessory shops for you to choose from.  If you prefer to shop online, you can do that as well.  For shopping online, visit us on Instagram @topdrawerjoy.com or on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/topdrawerjoy and review our products. If you don’t see what you are looking for, send a DM and let me help you find something.
Many couples prefer shopping online for sex toys, as it does tend to limit the embarrassment.  The only thing is that you need to be careful with who you shop with.  You will want to do business with a company that is discrete.  Make sure your package doesn’t arrive with a phrase like “We Sell Sex Toys,” plastered around the box.  Also, what will appear on your credit card or bank statements?  This may be a concern of yours if you don’t want what seems like the whole world knowing what you do in your private life. Top Drawer Joy believes in discretion.
As a reminder, as fearful as you may be of walking into a sex store for the first time or as worried you may be having a red box that screams sexual contents sitting on your doorstep, don’t worry.  Remember that a lot of couples use sex toys as a way to bring fun and excitement into the bedroom.
If you are looking to spice up your sex life, visit us on Instagram @topdrawerjoy.com or on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/topdrawerjoy and review our products. If you don’t see what you are looking for, send a DM and let me help you find something.

4 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things In the Bedroom

Are you in a relationship that seems as if it is stalled in the bedroom?  If so, your first thought may be to terminate the relationship.  But, what if your relationship is long-term?  What if you are married?  What if you really do love your partner?  What steps should you take then?
When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is important to know that ending a marriage or a relationship should only be used as a last approach.  Instead, you will want to take steps to spice things up.  Doing so may improve more than just your intimacy, but it may do wonders for your relationship in general.
As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice things up and in the bedroom, you may be unsure as to how you should proceed.  If that is the case, please continue reading on.  Below, four easy ways that you can spice things up in the bedroom, are covered.
1 – Engage in Foreplay
When you do have sex, what happens?  Do you and your partner get right down to business?  If you do, that may be a huge problem.  Unfortunately, many couples do not realize that intimacy is more than just about having sex.  It is also about having a happy and healthy relationship.  If you rely on sex to make your relationship succeed, there is a very good chance that it will actually fail.
If you and your partner don’t already engage in foreplay, start doing so.  Also, remember that foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom.  Call your lover, send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing your desires to get intimate with them later on.
2 – Be Spontaneous
When you want to have sex, what do you do?  If you actually take the time to ask your partner if they want to be intimate with you, you may be doing more harm than good.  Asking first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than something that should bring you pleasure.  The next time that you want to move to the bedroom, don’t ask first.  Just lead your partner there.  In fact, who needs a bedroom?
Know that being spontaneous is about more than not talking about sex first.  Ways that you can be spontaneous with your partner is to have sex at a different time, date, or place.
3 – Talk About Your Fantasies
One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn’t having their desires fulfilled.  If that is the case with you?  Does your partner know what you like or what you want to get out of being intimate?  If not, it is time for you to let them know.   Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires.  What would you like to try in the bedroom?  In addition to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, be sure to let your partner do the same.  Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter pleased.
4 – Experiment in the Bedroom
Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up things in the bedroom is by experimenting.  When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options.  For starters, you can try a new sex position.  This may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement.  Sex toys, romantic or pornographic videos, and role playing are other good ideas for experimenting in the bedroom.
Remember that experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment.  It may be a wise decision to first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make him or her feel uncomfortable.
So there you have it!  You know have a few ideas on how you can go about spicing up things in the bedroom.  So what are you waiting for?  Get started today.
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